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Testosterone and Men

Getting to the heart of why men need to be masculine

Some advice on testosterone is hot garbage
Okay, so some of it is pretty useful too
— Me

Yes, sunlight can help boost your test but some of the utter nonsense like eating a pound of broccoli per day is just stupid and unreasonable.

Don’t Be Silly, Now

If you did, the excess fiber and resulting upset stomach would CERTAINLY lower your testosterone. Think about that.

This is why it’s important to take what these bullshit gurus say with a grain of salt, okay.

Watch Your Testosterone Closely

It’s very wise to be mindful of your test levels as a man though. Bad testosterone numbers will definitely lead to some issues. The bedroom, the bathroom, and the boardroom can all suffer through low test.

Power Suffers

A man with low test may find difficulty with intimacy and performance. May have many medical issues. He may also find his power and decision making called into question more as he starts to display a lack of dominance, integrity and decisiveness.

There’s probably not a man on the planet that would like to see his power and vitality suffer because of poor hormonal health, yet millions of guys around the world are in serious danger territory.

Actually, scratch that – There’s probably a lot of beta, weak men that have convinced themselves they’re quite happy that way. Sure beats picking up a dumbell and doing something about it.

The power of persuasion is amazing, but there’s none so fascinating as cognitive dissonance.

Beat Low Testosterone

For those who know or at least suspect their test levels may be sinking, there are some things that can be done to fight it. Fight it like a man.

One of the most odd but observably true is “BE A MAN”.

Ever notice that masculine high-testosterone men seem to have commonalities in looks, behavior, likes and dislikes?

Well it’s no coincidence. I’m not at all suggesting you grab a pack of 50 Marlboroughs and start smoking up a chimney. Funnily enough there’s some evidence to suggest nicotine might boost test. Just look at the levels of femininity between smoking women and non-smoking women?

Being The Man

So, you want to “be the man”, boost your test and develop superhuman fertility. Well, hold your horses there, bucko – Are you sure you can handle it?

Being decisive, strong willed, a leader, and keeping your emotions in check is not for everyone. It’s hard work. It’s easier to just let your wife take control of the finances, the choices and everything else until the day she dies, or at least until the day she loses respect for you, which of course, will inevitably happen if you can’t be a man.

Front Up

Women can be one of the hardest parts of being a man. Your romantic partner will try and test you and the minute you start giving in on a regular basis, you are actually giving up.

Women do not respect men they can push around.

What has this got to do with testosterone? Well, relationship issues affect test levels significantly. Arguments, worrying, rejection and lack of power can seriously affect a man’s thinking and increase cortisol – Decreasing testosterone.

So it stands to good reason that harmonious relationships are far better for your test levels than bad ones. So, as a man it’s important to front up and not to take sh*t from your partner.

There’s a cultural epidemic of men who are absolutely downtrodden in their relationships. If we were to call it abuse, it’d be 100% correct. Abuse against men is very invisible. It’s almost completely socially acceptable.

How many times have you seen a women screaming, berating or slapping a man in public, on reality tv or the like? I’ve witnessed this all too many times to count.

But it’s okay because men are big and strong etc etc, blah blah insert excuse here.

The truth is though, almost all of these men slowly let this power dynamic occur. Not that I’m saying it’s their fault but what I am saying is that whatever you are prepared to accept will frequently occur so you’d better take the opinion that this sh*t is completely unacceptable.

Do not put up with abusive, domineering, aggressive, and uncaring women. You’re better off single and you’re testosterone is too.

Be Productive

Stagnation kills testosterone. You’re built to compete. To fight. To win.

Stagnation, inactivity, laziness – They all rob you of vital male drive.

Don’t let it creep in because it happens slowly. One day it’s an extra 30mins of tv, the next it’s a skipped workout or walk to do something like playing video games. It’s so easy to slip into being unproductive.

Building things, fleshing out ideas, creating, competing, winning.

These are things that build productivity and that signals positive feedback in your hormonal loop. Productive men produce more test.

Be productive like those guys

Avoid Petty Jealousy

You know who doesn’t have time for petty jeaously?

Masculine, high testosterone men – That’s who.

Why would they, too? They’re busy carving a path for themselves and changing the world around them with their actions and deed.

Beta males beg for affection. They demand others do the things they’re too weak to do. They compel things from others instead of creating things themselves.

This is bad for you testosterone. Your mind as a man wants to compete a win. You need success. Doesn’t mean you need an Olympic gold medal or to run a fortune 500 company (though they’re not bad effort you chase), what you do need is to have goals no matter how small and to chase them.

Being a jealous beta is not a goal – It’s a weak lifestyle choice. Real men excel. Jealous betas drag everyone around them down because competition scares them… As, do high testosterone men.

Change Your Attitude
Change Your Life

The only disability in life is a bad atitude

Maybe it’s time you make a fresh new start. Not a new outfit or a vacation, no – A fresh new attitude.

Many people go through their whole life with a mindset that will eventually befall them and cause a life time of wrong choices and pain. Is that you?

A lot of men get bogged down in commitment, obligations and it can have serious affects on their competitive streak. That edge that men need to be successful and driven

Don’t worry, smart people can change and do change, in fact one of the most important thing successful people do is to analyze the way they treat others and in turn how others perceive them.

Where To Start?

What are your perceived best personality traits?

Are you happy-go-lucky? – Are you a good listener? Are you modest?

Figure out your strengths and be proud of your self, but even more importantly, access your weaknesses.

Strong Men Work On Their Weaknesses

But they have to identify them

You probably Have Low Testosterone & Why That’s Really Bad

There’s big problem right now for men. Due to many factors male testosterone levels have been declining for quite a while and it’s affecting men’s health, confidence and success,

Especially men’s success with women
Let’s get straight in to why this is a huge problem right now.

Testosterone is one of the most important aspects of a man’s life.
I’m about to tell you why having high testosterone is great and how the benefits are many this is actually going to help highlight why having low testosterone is really bad.
So let me start straight away:
Let’s look at these benefits right now

Strength
Increased testosterone has been shown to display a measurable increase in strength
Likewise, decreased testosterone, well, you guessed.. Leads to decreased strength.
Let’s face it – Nobody wants that

Lower Body Fat
Look, I’m not going to argue that lower body fat body is more more attractive, it just is.
Some people will argue that you can be sexy with a bit of meat on your bone and sure yep, you can be – but what people say and what they actually do are frequently at odds.

Lower body fat is healthier, more attractive and is also conducive to better mobility.
There are a lot of benefits.

Unfortunately, higher body fat makes you slower, less attractive and can place you at risk of a lot of health issues.

Weak Thinking

You can have your own opinion on politics and society, but one thing has become abundantly clear. Men who have low testosterone have very different ways of thinking to those high test males.

Self responsibility, self respect, discipline, and logic seems to emanate from high testosterone guys.

Weak thinking seems to be a constant among low test males. These guys seem to be jealous, illogical, ill-disciplined and lazy.

How many successful men have you ever seen that were really low testosterone looking?

Especially in the field of sports. Good luck. I’ll wait.

Are You Willing To Work At It?

Quit talking about getting your sh*t together and do something.

Don’t just write a list and hum and harrrrr for a day/week/month.

Action is the calling card of the high testosterone male just as inaction is synonomous with beta males.

If you are simply not willing to front up (as I mentioned) then you’ll more than likely achieve nothing but manboobs, low test and a bitch attitude.

Work matters.

Work Makes Men Happy

Men need purpose in a way that women do not. A female can spend her days married to a billionaire and fill it with socializing as well as shopping and lead a pretty happy life.

This doesn’t apply to men. Your productive core, your drive to create things because you can not create life – This amazing drive must be fed and fueled.

Work that fulfills you will make you happy. Being a productive man, creating values and building the world around you, really does have an effect on your test levels.

Don’t be stagnant, lazy, impotent.

Deep down you know these things. You know full well that this is the truth.

The Heart Of Being Masculine

I understand complicitly that what it means to be a man, to be masculine at its very core is changing with the times.

What I object to is that much of what is being projected is nonsense brought about by gender ideologues who despise men and everything masculine so they use their platforms to denounce anything that bad men do as being masculine or the very representation of maleness.

You’ve probably heard of the disgusting phrase toxic masculinity.

I firmly believe that what it means to be masculine and to be a man has NOT changed.

That being a good man, a strong man, a decisive man, a rational man – These are masculine traits.

Standing up for others, often at your own expense. This has always been the vestige of men. Sure, women do it but how often do they do this when there’s no protection, no men there to catch them if they fail, no societal safety net?

When you look at this long and hard, it makes you realize that all of those heroes risking their lives to help others and I mean REALLY RISKING THEIR LIVES, not some hocus pocus claptrap version of “stunning and brave”.

Tweeting is not brave. Pointing fingers is not brave.

Women can be brave. Yes. I don’t deny it and you can bet that in my insistence that men are far braver that I will get hate even though all the evidence axiomatically points to me being correct.

Braveness is masculine. Women can have this trait. All men should strive for it.

Toxic Masculinity

What utter garbage this is.

You all know gender studies – The sacred cow of universities that doesn’t need to prove anything using a modicum of rationality or actual science.

Nope. Just lie, make up BS, & call anyone who disagrees with your garbage hot-takes as a sexist. Profit!

It’s worked for 50 years. But now they’ve gone too far (again) but people are noticing and this time, the push back is big.

For any of you who didn’t see the trash Gillette advertisement where they basically just ripped on men for a minute straight, well, that pretty much summed it up. Toxic Masculinity was the charge and fixing it was the key.

In a nutshell the idea of toxic masculinity is that anything bad men do is because of toxic masculinity and if you think there’s a feminist book, website, or blog devoted to positive masculinity – Think again.

Of course, you knew that there’d be no positive attribution to maleness from these people who “don’t hate men”.

Let’s get something crystal clear: There is no toxic masculinity. Some men do bad things because they are broken or bad people. Maybe they weren’t raised right or have psychological issues. It’s not because they are masculine.

Never.

This sort of man-hating garbage is allowed to surface because if feminists and man haters don’t have something to complain about in the public sphere then their worthless gender studies degrees are shown for exactly what they are… Worthless trash.

What is toxic is the culture that allows such utter nonsense to prevail unchecked.

Well, until now.

The fightback against this nonsense has begun. Gillette’s ad was wildly unpopular and lost them millions in revenue as men around the world gave them the middle finger and joined dollar shave club.

Men are sick of being collectively blamed for things when we are not allowed to collectively blame any other group. This is an injustice not to be let in lightly.

Masculinity is the embodiment of maleness.

It is the positive strength

It is the rational mind

It is the brave

It is the protective

It is the calm

Masculinity is fantastic, wonderful, and to be celebrated.

Enjoying The Benefits Of Being A Good Man

Yes, you are allowed to be happy. Yes, you can take a moment to think about how being a man – A real man, can be rewarding.

When you put your time and energy into masculine pursuits:

Success

Working Out

Competition

Outdoors Activities

Rational Thinking

Critical Thinking

When you make these the foundational elements of your life as a man, the rewards are numerous. Health, wealth, happiness, and attractive women all become a normal part of your life because your power as a leader, a strong man attracts these things.

By working hard on increasing you power – You improve all areas of life.

As long as you maintain balance.

Success In The Dating World As A REAL Man

Life changes when you are a real man.

Okay, so I’m quick to point out how most considerations of what a man is are pretty ridiculous. I’m more interested in uses the old-school version of strong, charismatic gentleman instead of the contemporary hipster barista douchebag.

Being the living embodiment of an old-school man is a massive benefit to all males in the current dating pool

Women really enjoy masculine men and many of them despise low-value, beta men. The kind that beg for sex, need to ask for permission to do anything, and don’t know how to take the lead.

Don’t be that guy.

Men with a strong, powerful presence have far more success with women.

There’s absolutely NO POINT denying that women at the very core of their nature still want strong, masculine men.

Look most popular male celebrities are right now?

Dwayne Johnson, Jason Momoa, Chris Hemsworth… Are you seeing a pattern?

I don’t see a scrawny beta in that list.

This is because the Hollywood industry still caters to women. Women control most of household expenditure. If you want to make money, then you’d better be aware of that fact.

What you are seeing in cinema is a direct reflection of feminine demand.

You can use that to your advantage, not that any part of your life should be concerned at all with what women want.

All you need to do is follow all those things we’ve talked about on this page like masculine pursuits, manly activities, success, working out, be strong of body and mind.

Do these things and you’ll never give a damn about impressing women. They’ll want to impress you.

Think long and hard about that

You can attract or you can repel and I don’t mean that in some bullshit “law of attraction” way. I mean things of value attract others and things of low value make them run for the hills.

It’s time to think about what you want to be?

What Sort Of Man Do You Want To Be?

At some point in time you’ll have to make an assessment about who you want to be.

Look around you. Look at successful men, capable men. Those are people to be emulated and imitated in the most sincere form.

Do you want to be the type of outdoors, talented, masculine “Theodore Roosevelt” type of man.

Perhaps the strong silent type of quiet achiever is more your speed.

Whatever it is, I can safely assume you don’t want to be one of those soy drinking, cry baby betas who complain about everything masculine because they’re to damn weak to compete.

They really are sickening to watch in action

Let’s Talk About Betas

Now, not every beta is a simp or a complete weakling. Many are just average guys but EVERY simp is a beta.

What’s a beta?

A beta is a guy who doesn’t display or employ alpha male behavior.

A beta takes too long to make choices, doesn’t follow his dreams/goals/ambitions to fruition.

A beta lets women walk all over him or at least doesn’t make a stand like a man should on issues that matter.

A beta won’t fight for himself.

What’s a simp?

A simp is short for simpering. It’s one of those guys that kowtows to women at the drop of a hat.

A simp compliments women online that he has NO chance with, further inflating their already high egos.

A simp will sell out every other male for a perceived shot at any women that’ll have him which ironically only makes him less valuable and more weak in the eyes of women, therefore further reducing his ability to date anyone.

A simp is a big suck up.

Don’t be a simp.

It’s okay to be a beta but you should want more, so much more for yourself than living such a hollow existence.

So, What Have We Learned?

Low Test Sucks

Your testosterone affects every thing you do. With a lower test, your life as a man will be an uphill battle.

Act Like A Man

If you want to be a man, you have to act like one. Doing masculine things, having a strong, decisive edge, and keeping your shoulders straight, all signal to your body that you are indeed “the man” and it releases testosterone accordingly.

Don’t Be A Beta

Act like a whiny beta and suck up to women, do everything everyone else wants and never acting in your own best self interests is a fast track to watching your body lower its test levels as it realizes you don’t need it because you’re a little bitch.

Don’t Be A Lazy Sack Of Sh**

You’ll lose respect for yourself and from others. Active men have ruled the ruled. If you’re a lazy type, prepare to be ruled by greater men than yourself with little to no care for your well-being.

Don’t Be A Victim

You might have disadvantages – Too bad. Acknowledging them isn’t gonna do jack-sh*t about helping your cause. Work hard, work out, and make a plan.

White, western women are the most coddled, luxuriated, pampered, and protected subset of human beings in the history of human existence. They live longer than men, take more vacations, work less hours and when they do work they work in industries that let them “find themselves” or “enjoy” work.

And yet, no one on the face of the planet would appear to be less happy and complains more. Feminism told them they were victims from birth and now they see every man on every corner as a potential threat and everything they do not have that they never worked for as being held back because of “the man”.

Understand Your Weaknesses

Not to complain about them but to work on them. Turn them into strengths by destroying their very existence. You have no right to wallow in self pity if you have the biological wherewithal to do something about it.

There are paraplegics out there and blind people as well – In fact there are blind paraplegics – All who play sport and better themselves.

You insult them every time you complain about weaknesses you refuse to work on.

Don’t do this.

Step up

Stand up

I don’t want to make this prediction but it seems more and more true every day.

All that is related to testosterone, masculinity, and maleness is being slowly eroded. All I can see in the future is a world where common male behavior that we see today would be met with disgust.

We, you, I – Can’t allow this to happen.

We need to right for our hobbies, our masculinity, and the right to be men and behave like men.

So, what have we learned here?

For starters, there are a lot of people out there that dislike traditional masculinity and want to do everything they can to destroy it in its most potent form.

These man-hating feminists, beta males & simps hate you. They despise the idea that being a man can be anything positive at all.

Now, it’s not up to you to prove them wrong. Your attitude should be “fck em”. What the heck do they matter, anyway.

That doesn’t mean that the intense stranglehold they have on culture is going anywhere, though. It’s here to stay.

Expect every single masculine hobby to be demonized at large. Expect every bad thing a man does to be examined under the miscroscope and used as an an example of what all men are by people whose ability to shift between generalizations being prejudiced or evil depending on whomever they’re trying to attack or defend.

Most of all be prepared to meet resistance in every form of thought.

If self responsibility and control are respectable, masculine ways to live then you’d better believe that victimhood and blame culture is coming for everything you believe in.

So, be prepared to fight on all fronts but most of all, be prepared to win.

Your health, your success, and your happiness as a male as heavily dependent on your testosterone levels. Almost everything the people whom hate men want to destroy, just so happen to affect those key ingredients in your life.

That’s okay. You’re a man. Your THE MAN.

You are built to absorb pressure and gain power, all the while building and creating the world around you.

Jealous, weak men will despise you for raising the bar beyond their capability of attainment and feminists will continue to claim that they don’t hate men while attacking everything men do and say at the same time ignoring the females who are toxic and evil.

No big surprises.

So, that’s what we know about but…

What Are You Going To Do About It?

It’s one thing to read all this stuff about being masculine and boosting testosterone. It’s another entirely to get of your ass and actually put the effort in to develop a more manly persona and lifestyle.

I guess, it’s about how much you want your life to stay the same. Are you losing in the dating game? Maybe you want more attention from women.

Perhaps you want to be more competitive in your work environment and moake more money.

You might even feel like you need focus because your mind wanders off too much towards depression or uncontrollable scenarios.

Whatever the reason you have for wanting to boost your testosterone, the act of doing so can add very tangible improvements to all of the above situations.

There’s absolutely no reason not to increase your testosterone levels but I can’t think of a single damn reason to stay the same.

Listing your goals

One of the great things about being a man is that listing your goals and achieving them actually has a massive effect on tesosterone.

It doesn’t even have to be a big goal. List several mundane things and tick them off one by one.

By achieving even the smallest goal you signal your mind that you’re active, engaged and that your drive is healthy.

This can have an effect on testosterone production and is certainly worth adding to your list of thigs that boost your testosterone.

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Why I Care About Testosterone

Okay, so nobody cares who the hell I am but I’ll do this anyway

I have a pretty well known blog and a lot of followers but this is where I can use my pseudonym name and let off some steam. No more good vibes and everyone be nice to each other.

What’s the point?

Because I have spent years doing this and never really vent
Because it will help my blood pressure, or conversely raise it significantly. Meh. I’m fit as a fox.

Nope, I’m not going to tell you who I am, but I’ll leave some clues and the odd grammatical error just to throw some peeps off the trail, lol. No that’s just bad spelling.

I hope you enjoy the utter crap I’m about to throw at the internet

>>>And there will be a ton of it. The world’s so full of beta men and jealous weak willed orbiters that no amount of pointing this out will ever suffice

Don’t worry, I’m sure you’re not one of them, after all, you’re reading this so you’re already practically a 6 foot masculine wood chopper. Not like those weak-ass coffee baristas. Am I right? Am I right?

Actually, who exactly was I mocking there? You or them?

Anyway, this is just a vent thread so It’ll not be 5000 words of seo filled keyword nonsense or anything meant to do anything other than let me type my terrible thoughts onto your screen.

I hope my family forgives me, coz I’mma throw a few people under the bus, lol

All I want is to let a couple of men out there know that there’s nothing wrong with actually being a man.

This feminized bullshit that is pervasive in our sons, nephews and brothers has gone too far. It’s making men unhappy.

Men are not defective women. Men rock!

I’m writing a post on testosterone because I think it’s a crucial part of this issue.

Men are low in testosterone now. Lower than ever before and it’s affecting the balance of society, politics and culture.

The fight back begins with men casting off this ridiculous notion that masculinity is bad or as these lunatic feminists would have you believe: TOXIC

Letting these man-hating wildebeests dictate what is toxic and what is not is laughable.

The gall of these people to label parts of masculinity as toxic and still claim they’re not man-haters is no surprise to anyone who spent 10 minutes talking with them.

It’s a cult like fervor they have and maintain. Everything men do is bad. Everything women do is good.

Women are always the victim

Men are always the oppressor

And so on and so on.

What do you think this does to a person’s mental state?

Such crass rationalizations only further makes themselves a victim all the while men who are never allowed to be victims, get on with life and build skyscrapers, the internet, the whole world – Without thanks.

And then, when the world is built replete with thechnology and luxury, these man-haters and their ideology add nothing of value to the world other than more hatred and division.

And men keep building and growing wealth.

Then, because men are taking degrees in engineering and women are getting useless gender studies diplomas, they have the further audacity to view the disparity in wages as sexism and not the choice of the most luxurified, spoiled, and coddled subset of people in the history of humanity: White western women

Which is completely, provably true.

Unlike the endless false claims these ideological cult members make.

6 Reasons Women Have It Easy

This will get some heat

You can’t say that, I must be kidding Right?

After all, CEOS are men, and all presidents and prime ministers are male.

Men get to go out to work and don’t have to look after the children.

Men earn more than women. Men have it so easy.

You’ve heard it all trotted out before at length.

Well, here is why these points are meaningless and why it’s easier to be a female in this day and age in the Western world.

Women Don’t Have To Work (Sometimes)

I hear women talk about how men get to go to work and don’t have to look after children like the men dodged some kind of bullet.

Work must be awesome!

The truth is most people hate their jobs and the majority of men supporting their families work hard and endure a job they dislike all for the sake of putting a roof over the family’s head and feeding their loved ones.

All CEOs are men – Guess what? Not all men are CEOs, in fact, the chances of a man becoming a CEO of a large corporation are about one in a million. Oh, and by the way – There are some women CEOs.

There is a lot of talk about how women have to stay home with the kids and don’t get the choice to work, but this is in equal proportion to men who have to go to work and don’t get to stay home with the kids.

If spending time with your kids is the most rewarding experience of one’s life then men are seriously getting unrewarded.

I’m not sure going to work 70 hours a week in a job you hate is easier or more fulfilling than staying at home with the kids.

Women Live Longer

By and large, people don’t want to die. For this reason alone, the fact that women on average live 5-7 years longer than men, shows that a life of looking after kids and not working for forty years leads one to a longer life. (stats)

Tough cookies for men eh?

Not only this, but add to it the fact that women’s health funding is far greater than men’s and you’d be reasonable in assuming society doesn’t care about men’s health as much as women’s.

Women live longer and receive more health funding, so when it comes to the issue of health, women have it easy, or at least easier than men.

The-everything-is-problematic-feminists are fuming already.

Male Assault Is Far More Acceptable

A female is more likely to escape assault charges if she attacks a male than a male is if he hits a female.

I’m not talking about the whole, “men hit harder” debate, I’m talking about equal damage.

So a jury is more likely to acquit a female and not a male.

7 TIMES MORE LIKELY!

Male assault is viewed with less horror and at times with a comedic response.

There are often adverts saying that assaulting women is not acceptable, but never adverts stating that the assault of males is wrong. Even if a man is more likely to be assaulted by his wife than a woman is likely to be assaulted by her man.

If a man breaks up with a female she can slap him and abuse him for hurting her feelings, if a man did that he’d end up behind bars

Property

When a man and woman break up, statistics show that women get proportionately more.

We all know that right?

But should one’s gender predicate the level of asset ownership post-divorce?

I would think not!

In alimony cases, a man has to pay a female who was a housewife after they break up, but he doesn’t continue to receive the benefits that were inherent in the relationship such as cooking and cleaning, this is very much a one-sided situation.

There is an argument that men can receive alimony too, but this isn’t always the case and in such relationships where men earn less, they are ten times less likely to receive alimony.

Men get the raw end of the deal.

Danger

Men are expected to do all things dangerous.

If there was a burglar tonight at your house, I bet you dollars to donuts that it’ll be the man sent downstairs to see what’s wrong and possibly take the bullet.

If there is a fire in your house tonight, statistically it will be more likely that a man will be saving your life and risking his own.

Men’s lives are more expendable because they are valued less.

If you think this isn’t true then ask yourself who makes up 94% of workplace fatalities. (facts)

Expenditure

The average female spends 18% of the household income on herself, and the average male spends 3%.

Is it any wonder there are 12 times as many female-oriented stores as there is male-oriented?

Men on average work longer hours, are in more danger, and live shorter lives the reward is so that women can spend 18% of household money on themselves and this is all deemed to be acceptable.

If men spent that kind of money on themselves in many relationships they couldn’t afford to eat.

Think about that next time you man bash!

Reasons Women Have It Easy – In Summary

Men and women both have obstacles to face, but many are self-made and many are not. The sheer danger and lack of respect men have to endure, whilst simultaneously being blamed unfairly for all of society’s problems, makes me think that females have the scales tipped towards them in many. many areas.

6 Reasons Women Have It Easier Than Men by Testosterone Hacks

Feminism’s Problematic Discourse

Problems With Feminism

It has been hailed as the measure of equality, the search for true equalism, and the final frontier in gender equalization, but does feminism deserve these attributes?

For many women, they simply won’t identify with feminism out of fear of being labeled as what it is they actually think feminism represents and that is man-hating. Just as many if not more are deathly afraid to criticize feminism because so many active feminists will seek to destroy you, ban your blog, cancel your presence, and even get you fired. Ever wonder why so many blogs critical of feminists are anonymous?

It’s not cowardice to protect your family from people who would love nothing more than to see you harmed because you disagree with them.

Now, these assumptions may come through the perceived world around them, the actions of feminists they personally know, or the effects they believe feminism has had on society and the attitudes of the modern feminist.

Defining Feminism

For many people, they hear a frequent citation of the definition of feminism: A movement established to lobby for equality for women. But is this definition representative of the actions of the majority of feminists?

My answer would be yes, I think most people who identify as feminists are not active participants in almost any feminist organizations. I would posit that most are just everyday women and some men who hear a news story on women’s issues and hope to achieve equality in areas in which they perceive there to be inequality.

Now going back to what I said, most people who self identify are not active feminists, not gender studies students, and not feminists bloggers, nope they’re just normal people who see a perception of inequality and have barely a peripheral thought on the subject, but if asked would identify as a feminist.

If asked about the patriarchal theory they would draw a blank. I call these lay feminists.

The Lynch Mob

There is a much smaller, but much less objective culture of feminists that I simply define as active feminists. These are bloggers, gender studies and revisionist history students, and the radicals.
The views these more subjective groups hold are not as readily accepted by Jane the lay feminist.
They have theories on patriarchal dominance, rape culture, and slut shaming.

These gender studies theories are well and truly open for debate and at times shaky at best and at worst they appear to be steeped in dogmatic subjectivity and emotionally biased rhetoric. Attempts to combat these theories with debate and intellectual rigor are met with accusations of misogyny and oppressive behavior.

When you surround yourself with a hateful ideology that blames the opposite sex without nuance then not only can you become bigoted but you can become self-centered. Look at the way far too many feminists approach men’s issues even worse should men dare to speak about their issues when the ideologues are.

Men who dare to talk about their issues or even drop some as non-controversial as “men don’t have it that easy” will be destroyed by a flood of “we have it worse” comments that devolve in to a mockery of men’s issues.

Hysteria & Misdirection

My First Problem With Feminism
1) Rape Culture
Talk to a lay feminist about rape culture and try to convince them that we live amidst the grip of a wave of societal rape acceptance and perpetuation. They’ll most likely say that they don’t at all see that as being the case.

Talk to an active feminist about rape culture and they’ll tell you that existing patriarchal dominance and a latent disrespect of equality seated in inherent misogyny leaves us in a rape propensity culture.

There is a reason that this is hard to sell to those who are not yet indoctrinated with anger and victimization. The reason is, that there is no rape culture.
Rape is a foul, heinous crime stripping a person away of their volition and hideously forcing them to experience helplessness almost incomparable to anything.

A crime so shocking that talks at the water cooler about news relating to offenders turns fast to conversations and the acceptance of medieval punishments of torture, castration, and death for said offenders. How quickly old school justice finds viability when rape is mentioned.

The ease with which they blame testosterone and men is frightening as if testosterone is some poison that dictates bad behavior. They get away with it because of the tired old defense of calling anyone who disagrees a misogynist.

What Men Think

Talk to men about the prospects of their mothers, daughters, sisters, or sons being raped and you’ll hear volition for the harshest punishments imaginable and the utmost disgust for a crime viewed by a society that neither tolerates it or accepts it as an inevitability, least no more than other vicious crimes.

But talk to an active feminist and they’ll attempt to paint you a picture of a world bursting at the seems with rapists, rape jokes, and acceptance of rape.

It’s really pretty easy to argue that rape is not an all-pervasive culture embodied in our day-to-day societal dealings.

Of course, like murder and child abuse, one is too many, but the world we live in has people who are bad and do bad things thinking little about the consequences for themselves or the victim of crimes.

Rape Jokes Everywhere

I had never until recently heard a rape joke and I thought it in poor taste. Like most people who open their mouths without concern for those who might have suffered from the topic, the person who told me it is not the brightest, nicest, or most successful person and at a guess is destined to stay that way.

Rape jokes are NOT, however, as active feminists will maintain, an everpresent disease surrounding our wills and destroying formative minds.

In fact, I decided to go straight to youtube and spend hours watching stand-up comedy, because according to active feminism it should be nothing but one rape joke after another.

Suffice to say that after a solid week of lunchtime and late evening viewing, my lungs are sore from laughing my ass off (thank you Chris Rock & Louis CK) and I found two “almost” rape jokes from obscure channels. This is after hundreds if not thousands of other jokes.

So I can’t help but seriously wonder that if we as a society abhor rape if men as individuals would destroy those who would hurt their families if offenders are viewed as the lowest denominator on the planet, then can we really attribute our society to being one of rape culture?

Proven penetrative rape occurs in less than 0.01% of the population which is low enough for us to at least acknowledge that rape is not all-pervasive and omnipresent.
That is in no way undermining the experience of victims (which is an accusation that is frequently leveled).

Sorry Feminism, but I don’t buy rape culture as a real phenomenon, there is no empirical evidence to support the theory and anecdotal evidence is low.

Patriarchy

Problem with feminism
Confirmation Bias
Most people are blissfully unaware of their biases. Men and women live life, learn through experience and develop prejudices and leanings based on their personal authority and their said lived experience.

When someone becomes involved in a group, network, or congregation of people repeating the same points in agreeance, confirmation bias can occur. Confirmation bias is the process whereby one finds the data, opinions, and references to support one’s argument and beliefs, but ignores the considerable amount of information that may in fact counter your viewpoint convincingly.

Most people are guilty of this at some stage.
Where feminism excels at this is in the way its most frequent forms of discussion are dominated by the negative things men do. So if on a given news day, three men die fighting a fire saving 5 children and 2 elderly, a brave male police officer dies saving a woman from a gunman and a brave young man risks his life to save a woman drowning, feminists and their websites will focus squarely and solely on the armed gunman who kidnapped a woman.

See the problem?
Viewing the world through a narrow lens can’t help but warp the way in which you view it and feminists contribute heavily to each other hearing the same old negatives about men, but ALWAYS in the absence of the bigger picture, the one where men are also the ones risking their lives and saving women.
This matters.
It matters because prejudice forms when you remove a crucial piece of the objective puzzle and remain fixated on the remaining factors. It’s almost humorous the standard feminist defense is “feminists don’t hate men”, usually followed in reality by their next blog entry about the things men do that they hate. No point fishing up semantics here.
When you buy into the standard men are perpetrators, women are victims narrative, but you leave out the men are heroes part, you plot a slippery slope towards prejudice.
I have a real problem with that.

Patriarchy Nonsense

Power
What is power? Talking to feminists, I am led to believe it is what men have.
If you talk about aliens, you get accused of wearing a tinfoil hat. If you speak of fluoride in the water being a cumulative poison, you’re told to trust the science and remove that tinfoil hat (again)

If you speak of the patriarchy…no problems.
The notion of patriarchal power can be dismissed fairly easily by applying a critical look at the tenets of said notion and then casting an eye at power and what exactly it means to have it, who has it, and examining deeper the way in which different people possess differing levels of societal control.

Patriarchy :
The charge – Men have all the power.
The first example feminists will give is government. They will insist that having a majority of men in representative roles creates an imbalance of power.

This notion in itself is extremely sexist as it implies men in power will not cover women’s issues and will self serve men at a greater level. The notion that men in power serve men better is patently untrue.

There are no laws that stipulate men have any rights that women do not. NONE.
In the western world, there are no governments that extend men’s legal rights by way of being men. Any claim of this is wilfully deceitful or ignorant.

71% of all tax expenditure is on women. Men do not receive extra welfare, more services, or increased funding by virtue of being male. Any claim of this is wilfully deceitful or ignorant.

74% of taxes paid are by men. Men do not receive any extended tax benefits for being men.

Women are the majority of voters.
The government can be voted in by the majority of voters, which are not men.
Let’s look at the power women have intra-goverment.

Women are more likely to have senior management roles in government departments and offices across the board. 72% of those in managerial roles are women.

Women have power in the engine room, keeping the cogs ticking.

Women account for 78% of all teachers. Those people molding young minds, developing children, controlling the way in which future generations think – They are women. Is this not power? When all you have is double standards you have no standards at all.

Women are the primary caregiver in 89% of cases. The majority of moral conduct and reflection a child will learn is from women. Is this not power?

Another claim feminists make is that companies are controlled by men and this is sexist. Aside from the possibility that women simply do not choose to secure company board leadership roles, or that the pressure on men to earn and support a family is much higher, leading to more competitive outcomes, there is also the small matter of hypergamy in which a male is much more likely to secure a partner if he earns more and must consider this in motivation, whereas females are much less likely to be under pressure to consider this factor as it rarely if ever applies.

But women have plenty of control over companies. Far more than men wield.
79% of all expenditure is by women. This means in order to secure the patronage of women consumers, companies must pander directly to the vanity, the will, and most importantly the power of the female customer.

If you do not satisfy the wants of the female gender your company will fail. That’s how much power women have over companies.
Last I checked there were no commercials telling men they deserve to buy something because they are worth it. Because frankly from a company’s bottom line standpoint, men are not!

The Patriarchy Myth Busted.

So women receive the majority of all government expenditure, pay the minority of taxes, have all the same legal rights as men, and are the majority of voters.
Except they are not required in most countries to sign up for selective services to gain their right to vote. They control the spending of almost every nation and have huge power over the entire economy. They are almost completely the authority for young, malleable minds and exert huge influence over most children.
Could someone, seriously argue, with a straight face, that any of this would be possible in a patriarchy?

Well, feminists do and I have a problem with their affront to logic and axiomatically obvious facts.
Who exerts the most control over the corporate world, the economy, and the government only to reap huge one-sided benefits not accorded to the other gender?

Clue: Not men.

It all seems pretty clear that feminists discourse not only has a dominant hand in culture but wields its power with deceit, aggression, and hypocrisy.

Is There A Sex Double Standard?

Is There A Sex Double Standard Between Men And Women

The double standard of men and women having sex.

Warning – This is about sex and can be graphic in nature, if you are not comfortable with the biological activities of humans, then you should not read this, or possibly anything

Is it a double standard when men who get the girl are called studs and the girl who gets all the boys is called a slut?

Are there important differences here at play or is it just an out and out double standard that proof and logic can’t possibly reveal?

I’ll try and answer those questions using some pretty reasonable terms and take a look at both societal expectations, biology and a hint of reality for good measure.

It’s yet another area where those problem feminists and their enablers attack men insisting it’s an area where men have it easy when the truth is, it’s just more subterfuge to cover the fact that men and women have very different levels of difficulty when it comes to acquiring sexual parterns.

The majority of this blog is about boosting testosterone but I like to touch on issues that affect men and this is one of those.

Men Are Studs – Women Are Sluts

This is the first point of foul usually called out. But, just how many of these studs are actually ever labelled that way?

You’ve seen it in movies, but it seems to harder to find examples in reality. A few movie stars cashing in on the currency of their fame get some airtime, but closer to the day in day out grudge of the real world, it appears that there lies a teeny bit of a conundrum in the way men view other guys who play-the-game.

There’s jealousy afoot!

You see, it’s not all back patting and high fives as some would have you believe, in fact there’s often a level of jealousy aforded to those with the attributes that others lack to get the girls.

It seems that in the real world, there is in fact very little talk of studs.

Research amongst 18-35 year old males conducted by Monash University showed a clearer picture.

When asked if impressed by a man who had slept with 10 or more partners only 31% replied yes.

When asked if impressed by a man who had slept with 25 or more partners the number drops to an interesting 19%

Those are not huge numbers, but it shows that men are not revered for their sexual prowess as many people would believe.

Is the Game Even?

Before denouncing double standards and crying foul, it is often wise to at least cast a cursory glance outside the box and look back in at the game itself and have a think about the rules.

For there to be a double standard, the rules would have to be the same for both sides right?

I mean that would be fair, to insist that men get called studs and women get called sluts would only be a double standard if ‘twer an even playing field right?

So to get a clear view of the game, we need to ask a few questions:

Is it as easy for a guy to have sex as a women?

Very rarely do I hear it argued that men have it easier than women when it comes to sex. Even the most ardent, blind feminist radicals seem to trip and stutter when they have the nerve to argue that men don’t have a completely tougher time trying to enlist a willing sex partner.

It works like this – If a man propositions 50 females, how many would say yes versus a female propositioning 50 men.

Luckily at study was done which can clear up the question.

One man and one woman of relative attractiveness asked 50 random strangers for sex and the results were as followed:

The man received 3 yes replies, which some might suggest are pretty good odds, until you see that the women received 19 positive replies.

Over six times the number of positive responses that the male had.

I’ll be the first to admit that that subject size was fairly low, but I don’t think the result would change much in a larger study group.

One thing most people agree on is that it is much harder for a man to find a sexual partner than it is for a woman, we have a study showing it can be six times harder. This would suggest, initially, that the playing field is not level and the game is not fair, but there are other questions to be asked.

It’s always the same thing from feminists though, “teh menz” have it easier, even in the face of overwhelming evidence.

Do Women Want Sex As Much As Men – What Hookers, Never Heard Of Them

If we can establish that the demand is equal then we can better evaluate the logical value of the double standard claim.

But are women as sexual as men?

A quick glance around society shows a culturally obvious standard of the horny man and the chaste woman, but is the perception skewed?

In a recent study adorning the pages of time magazine, it shows that there is a fairly large gap in parity for the sexual desires of men and women.

Men apparently want sex 6.3 times per week which is almost every day, women however were more content with just 4.1 times per week in comparison.

So men want “it” 2.2 more times per week than women, that would mean demand is not equal.
Possibly this could be quite easily shown by the sheer number of sex workers.

A simple glance at the sex market, shows that there are upward of 80 times more female sex workers than male ones.

It would seem only the most ardent feminist radical, who wishes to ignore society in favor of feminist myopia will ever argue that men are not looking for sexual activity more often than women.

Differing Outcomes = Differing Rules?

Men and women are not biologically identical, never moreso than in the area of sex organs. But do these differences beget differing outcomes that have an effect on the evaluation of the man = stud women = slut charge?

First we can take a mature look at how the biological ramifications are entirely different for men and women and let science show that it’s not the same outcome.

Women can get pregnant and as such bear a heavier burden from sex when the advent of contraception failing. Men bear no such risk, so it is not a logical consideration.

A lady who has sex runs the risk of getting pregnant every time, which can affect her physicality, not so for a man.

When a man sleeps with a promiscuous female, the chances of her getting pregnant and lying about the paternity are higher, because of this it is another reason that promiscuous females are valued less and let’s be honest and mature – We all use hundreds of ways to evaluate the worth of a person to us as a partner.

Knowing that a girl could be pregnant to someone else and you could be the poor sucker she lies to, well, that has to have some bearing. No man wants to be cuckholded.
This can not happen to a woman.

The outcomes of sex can be completely different, so it means we have another factor in play.

STDs & A Biological Fact Or Two

Sex can be hard to talk about, but it can be hard to read about as well. The mere notion of the term ejaculation could have you squirming, deep breathing or even clicking out to a new page.
Thanks for staying.

Being that men and women carry biological differences, it stands to reason that there may be different risks involved and as such this may also affect the possibility of the interplay and question of whether there is a double standard because men are called studs and women are called sluts.

The more partners you have sex with, the more likely you are to contract a disease. That’s going to have some seriously obvious affects on how we value virginity versus promiscuity, but being that both men and women can be promiscuous, the question is; is one gender more susceptible to sexually transmitted diseases and if so, will this change the view of the sexual double standard?

Firstly, I’d like to cite leading research on Sexually transmitted diseases, by highlighting an interesting fact – Women are more susceptible to STD’s. WHO

Studies show that women under 21 were 3 times more likely to contract a sexually transmitted disease and above that age were twice as likely as men to procure an STD, including HIV.

Knowing this, it is fair and reasonable to assume this definitely means that women who are more promiscuous carry 2-3 times the risk of gaining a disease and because of this scientifically undisputed fact it means men and women having sex are not on an equal playing field and the double standard is well and truly starting to seem debunked.

Anatomically speaking the female vagina is internal and the male penis is external. This is the reason for why women are more susceptible to STD’s. As men can wash off the fluids contacted through sex, it is much harder for a women. NIH

This also plays a role in the determination of evaluating sexual liberation and the way we would logically view men and women differently.

A promiscuous man is far less likely to have the genetic material of a partner’s sexual fluids on his person than a promiscuous female is.

There’s no way of getting around this, it’s the nature of the biological differences and goes a partial way to explaining that having sex with a very sexually active women means a higher chance of coming into contact with some other person’s bodily fluids.
You can’t deny the “ick” factor.

Size Matters And Doing The Business

We have to get a little deeper into this equation and we have to really dig down into the heart of matters and find out if there are factors in play that can seriously affect the premise of this so called “double standard”.

Firstly, it’s worth noting that the most common sexual position is the missionary position (man on top), then doggy style (self explanatory), then woman on top.

Suffice to say, by looking at this, we can evaluate certain things.

Men have to do most of the work. If you don’t like this evaluation, then I’m not sure how I can rearrange the biological actions in such a way that this would be false. The truth is most times during sex, a women merely lays down and a man has to do the bulk of the work.

Numerous sex studies already show us this and although there are many people doing many things, the majority of sex being had is by people in long term relationships and the overwhelming majority of that sex is women laying down – Man thrusting on top.

It’s also worth noting, because we have the time and werewithal to do so, that women often achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation only. Now this means that frequently the man has to put quite a lot of extra work to help his sex partner achieve orgasm.

Frequently men have to work harder in sex and women do not. Now we all know this isn’t the case every time, all the time, but it can be quite soundly argued that men work harder in sexual intercourse than women.

There is also a little matter of SIZE.

The variations of a vagina are fewer and have less an impact on sexual pleasure than a penis’s.

What exactly do I mean?

No two examples of female genitalia are exactly alike, in fact externally they vary as much as penis’s, but biologically they are far more similar in depth and feel than are penis’s in general.
Does this matter? If so why?

Size does matter, it’s as simple as that. Girth and length mean a great deal to the sexual pleasure of a female partner, but often a woman who experiences more sex partners will experience more variation and a larger likelihood of finding a penis that fits her perfectly and helps with intercourse orgasm.

Remember we just talked about how women do not always orgasm during sex? Well, men do almost every time. The internal shape of the vagina and the tightness play quite differently being that the vagina is a collapsed tube and almost always accomodates a penis satisfactorially meaning orgasm most every time.

So what has any of this got to do with anything?

From a female’s perspective, a man who has had a lot of sex partners has most likely experienced far less variation in sexual pleasure, but to a man, he is well aware that a female sex partner who has had several other partners, could very possibly and quite likely have had sex with someone who can give her an intercoursal oragasm, but there is a high chance that will not be able to do so.
Partally ego can come into play here.

A man who fears he may not measure up to the size of past partners is not necessarily being irrational nor obtuse, he may very well in fact put the concept of her pleasure very highly and it can be off, putting and pressuring to know you very possibly might not meet physical expectations.

In short a slut probably has had a penis bigger than yours guys, but a stud probably has not felt a vagina too different from yours ladies no matter how much the angry harpies stamp their feet and vent about it.

Every decent person wants to be a good lover, but a man is more likely to be let down by his biology and he KNOWS it.
That segues us nicely into the next little problem…

Pressure To Perform

Now that we’ve addressed the issue of size, there are other issues that women do not have, don’t have to worry about and probably pay little personal mind to.

However, for a man, these are pretty personal and can be very problematic.

There are people trying to state pretty loudly and fairly angrily that there is a double standard in sex for men and women. They try and say that a man who has many sex partners is called a stud, whilst a lady who is promiscuous is unfairly labelled a slut.

So for this to be the case, the cards that are dealt would have to be fairly even and I’m about to put the last nail in the coffin on this case and prove the cards are not even, there is no double standard and it’s not even close.

Men can’t afford to take things personally because it might affect sexual performance. In toher words, men have to remain reticent, on the ball, and on their game.

Imagine this:

A man and a lady go back to her apartment after a nice meal and a couple of classy drinks, things get hot and heavy and they move things along to the bedroom. She likes what she sees, she starts unbuttoning his pants and he takes hers off, they are good to go, but right at the moment of beginning, there is a problem.

Impotence.

Every man at some stage of his life will suffer from the inability to gain an erection, this pressure can become even worse when it is thought about and worried about. There is medication, though it is hugely inconvenient and the side effects are not so fun, but for your average guy who is in his early 20’s, he doesn’t think it will happen.

Women have no such worry, it is the man’s burden and it is difficult and problematic. It is also, like a lot of men’s problems met with very little sympathy and frequently the man is charged with accusations of not being attracted to the partner and is made to feel worse.

It’s not fun.

Then there is another little problem men have to deal with if they get past the impotent hurdle and that is premature ejaculation. Now biologically speaking this was actually a boon as it meant faster seeding of sperm because it lowered the chance of interuption stopping fertilisation.

In other words fast sex = More babies, less detractions.

When it comes to sex as an enjoyable past time and the prolonged enjoyment of a partner, it seems premature ejaculation, can be a problem.

A problem that females with their differing biology do not ever have to deal with.
Like most things male, little sympathy is afforded and sometimes resentment and anger can dwell in a partner who wishes for more.

Men have to deal with this anxiety, the repercussions and what it may mean to a possible relationship.

It’s yet another reason why the idea that there is some kind of double standard become more ludricous, the more you look at biology.

In Summary

Not An Even Playing Field – Not A Double Standard

If men are not all that often called studs and are in all actuallity called creeps, dogs and sleezes. Then this whole meme of men being called studs is a little “off”.

We have been through enough examples that we can see logically men and women are biologically different – Only the crazy are going to attempt to argue that. We can also see sex carries completely diferent repercussions for men and women and that the pressure is on men and that the values and outcomes are not the same.

So how can it be a double standard?

My conclusion is that it is not a double standard, in fact it is far from it.

Let’s look at the examples and draw a conclusion:

We know that it is fairly rare for men to be called a stud, they are frequently derided themselves and called creeps and sleazes/sleazeballs.
Secondly it is shown that it is six times harder for a man to find a sexual partner.
Thirdly Females want to have sex less frequently than men.
There are exponentially more female sex workers, due to DEMAND
Women are 2-3 times more likely to catch an STD including HIV
Women can get pregnant
Having sex and then a relationship with a slut increase the risk of being cuckholded
Sex with a slut increases the chance of contact with other’s body fliud more than if reversed
Women have less anxiety about their genital being inferior to a “Stud’s” previous partner’s
Men have to perform far more physical activity during sex
Men have to perform supplementary activity to achieve and orgasm for a partner
The pressure to perform is mostly solely on the man
Men have to deal with impotence and get past that in order to have sex – Women don’t
Men have to deal with premature ejaculation and women do not
Men may face anger when 13 or 14 arise.

So in case anyone doesn’t quite get it; men have to work much harder to find a sex partner, once there they have to overcome several physical obstacles and once past them they do the majority of the physical work in the sexual interaction.

A women can seriously be in the situation where she asks a guy for sex, lays there, does nothing and that’s that.

I fail to see the notion that any sane person can look past those fifteen examples and not see the idea of a double standard as ridiculous.

But, then again some radical people, want to make some people victims no matter what. Some people will read this an say “hey, there’s no double standard” and some people will read it and say “hey you’re sexist, it doesn’t matter what you say – there’s a double standard”.

Guess who?

Is There A Sex Double Standard Between Men And Women By Testosterone Hacks

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The Dying Hormone

Yep, it’s pretty much true. Testosterone has become a dying hormone.

Gone are the days where men’s lives a filled to the brim with masculine, testosterone boosting activities, test-boosting foods, and an environment conducive to ensuring manliness lived on.

Fast-forward to now, 2020 and the world is full of cry-baby males who spend all their time on screens instead of fishing, hunting, building things with their hands, and bending the world around them to make life better.

Food is packed with chemicals that make men full of estrogen. We all know what happens to women who have too much estrogen, right? Hysteria, illogical nonsense, and complete lack of self-responsibility.

This is not how men should be. We’ve warped to world and in doing so, we’ve hurt the very nature of what a man should be and what exactly it is to be a man.

I wanted this blog to address some of the issues men face as well as highlighting some of the roadblocks to reaching successful masculinity including, foods, evnironmental causes, hateful ideologies, and lifestyle.

I hope it can help 1 single man think about the world around him. Maybe more.

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Why Men Don’t Have It Easy

Feminists And Their Lies!

No I’m not being misogynistic. Men lie and lie plenty. My only point is that we seem to have no problem as a society in calling men anything that springs to mind, real or not.

Women tell lies and they aren’t perfect – There I said it End of article.

…Well, maybe not.

Okay, we all lie eventually.

The thing is many men are tired of the “men have it easy” cliche trotted out, but among their utter hatred of all things testosterone there is no evidence to prove men have it easy at all. The life of a man is no easier than the life of a woman.

Society has many ways in which each gender is privileged and burdened, but men’s burdens are often cast aside in a world of women’s mags and female driven media that caters to women.

I Don’t Play Their Game

What I’d like to point out is I have no intention of writing a “Why Women Suck” piece so crass misogynists and hateful people wont find any material here. But we all might learn a little something about being a man and why it’s not all beer and fishing.

I actually read an article entitled “Women Are Inferior” frankly the writer had some issues that he needed to sort out, issues that no psychiatrist could help with. We don’t have to take superiority stances to put our point across, but we can all at least listen. I’ve seen plenty of Men are inferior posts too from the Teh Menz crowd, so I think some people might need a brighter outlook.

In my masculine criticism of feminism I took aim at many of the failures of feminism and the hatred that too often accompanies their movement no matter how much they seek to downplay it.

When speaking in this article I am referring to western women in countries like Canada, USA, Britain, New Zealand, Australia and South Africa.

Maybe some of this doesn’t apply to your culture, maybe some of it does.

Anyway here goes, this is why men don’t have it easy…

Men Don’t Have It Easy In Divorce

Divorce hurts everyone!

Unfortunately it hurts children the most and most of the time the default position is still that dad only gets weekend visitation or worse bi weekly visits.

This is a classic case of gender discrimination.

I actually can not believe in this day and age that this continues to happen. The secondary problem associated with this position is that the assets follow the mother too.

So as a male in a marriage the chances still are that if you get divorced you’ll lose your children and most of your assets, whereas females enjoy the benefit of knowing that if the marriage fails, then it isn’t going to rob you of the most precious things in your life.

My heart goes out to those who lose touch with their children due to this antiquated notion that women are better parents. It’s unfounded, it’s not true and frankly the statistic go completely against that mode of thinking.

A child is more likely to be assaulted by their mother than their father in the case of sole custody. That is proportionately speaking too, because often the defense is that women have the children more, but in the case of individual custody a child is safer with the father.

In the face of this evidence, good old fashioned reticent men still lose custody hearings in large proportions.

Men really do not have it easy in the case of divorce, in fact I don’t often come across anyone who actually is willing to argue this point.

Men Don’t Have It Easy In Sex

Yep, I’m going there because it’s a subject that gets too little attention and we are all adults here (I hope).

Men love sex, women love sex. It would seem biologically that men have more of a drive and want it more often.

To ignore the difference in biological sexual make up would be plain ignorant. I have heard feminists argue that sex drive is part of the societal construct, but being that the male sexual arousal is physically manifested in such an obvious way as the erection it’s hard to take seriously.

Men want sex more than women do in general, to say this isn’t so is to basically have your eyes closed from birth. The typical man wants sex more than his partner is willing to share such will,

This has created a lot of problems in relationships.

Even though men seem to have fair difficulty in finding sex partners and frequent sex, we still hear about women’s sexual encounters as being a double standard.

I’m not a counselor and have no intention of being any help, but one of the most talked about double standards is that men who sleep with a lot of women are glamorized and women who sleep with a lot of men are demonized.

Firstly I’m against demonizing either gender for wanting sex in any quantity, they are human beings who make their own choices and we have no right to judge anyone unless of course YOU are perfect, which you definitely are not.

…..But

I hear a lot about this a a double standard and here is why it isn’t on…

Men want a lot more sex than women do so it is far harder to get for men (much harder)

Women want sex a lot less, so when they want a lot, it is very easy. If the are to be as discerning as men, they are far more able to find a sex partner.

It’s the truth and again it’s very rarely argued that women want sex more or find it harder to get.

There will be those who argue this, but they also ignore the actual world we live in where female prostitutes outnumber male prostitutes 50 to 1. So it’s hard to take their arguments seriously.

Simple right?

A man finding a sexual partner is thought of differently to a woman who does.

Well, many women complain that it is a huge double standard, but frankly if a man played basketball in the women’s league and performed well he wouldn’t be lauded and celebrated, but if a women played in a men’s basketball league and did well, she would be celebrated and congratulated.

See the analogy – See the standard in reverse?

There is no double standard, only two very different attitudes based on ability to achieve results.

Yes, we are still talking about sex.

So if you believe that the porn and sex industry don’t exist and that men and women’s sex drive are the same, the basketball analogy wont work for you, but if you have ever been to a bar, or basically anywhere on the planet earth, then you’ll realize it is easier for women to have sex.

Women who have sex also fall risk of becoming pregnant which men can not and women also run a far higher risk of contracting a sexually transmitted disease than men do.

So, it ain’t equal or the same,

Men do not have it easy when it comes to sex, so when a male has the skills to achieve a lot of something that is rare to get, then it is deemed different to a female getting something that is very easy to get.

Men Don’t Have It Easy With The Law

I know I’ve brought up the subject of divorce, but I want to touch on something a little different.

Conviction rates!

You see if you are a male then you are considerably more likely to be convicted of the exact same crime that a women is more likely to be let of for.

Men are expected to control their anger and are judged by the very worst examples of those who don’t.

So if I hit you with a fry pan and my sister did, she would most likely walk on good behavior and I would get a one way ticket to the slammer.

Fair?

I think it reasonable to assume that it’s really not fair.

Maybe you disagree?

It also seems in the case of domestic violence the male is automatically deemed to be in the wrong.

AUTOMATICALLY!

So males being in the wrong is the default position. What is astonishing about this is that a man is more likely to be the victim of domestic violence than a female is.

Yes – 100% fact!

Of course men do more damage when violent, and frankly any violence against anyone by any gender is unacceptable, but when the default position is that you initiated and were the cause of a domestic exchange, well, that is not right, it’s not fair and it’s yet again prove that when it comes to justice and the law, men do not have it easy nor easier.

Constitutional rights are waived because you are a man.

Not very equal.

Employment

Now I’d like to firstly deal with the number one employment issue that women have ….. the wage gap!

Women assert that men earn 30% more than women. It’s true.

Men do earn on average 30% more than women in paid employment.

But there is a caveat to that information, that most misleading of statistics….

Men work over 30% longer days than women.

So do you think it is unfair that a man working 70 hours a week in a coal mine earns more than a lady working part time as a cashier for 25 hours a week?

Most reasonable people would say it’s not unfair in the least, of course it you’re a socialist/communist you may disagree, but seeing as the democratic western world is based on mixed economics and the whole “a hard days work for a fair days pay” ethos, sometimes I have to scratch my head.

Men also have the most dangerous jobs and are far more likely to die or get serious injured at the work place than females.

Men have far more physically demanding jobs than females and studies show that people of any gender who work in laborious jobs have a far shorter life expectancy than those who do not.

Men are also more likely to negotiate pay raises and better starting salaries.

Men are also more likely to travel further to obtain employment.

Men also retire later and enjoy the benefits of seniority.

Men also pick unfulfilling jobs to get better pay

Women don’t!

Is that unfair?

So, in conclusion;

*Men work longer hours

*Men Work more dangerous jobs

*Men commute further for longer

*Men work later in life and retire later

*Men negotiate better pay

So the wage gap is more of a wage myth, not to mention it is illegal to employ some one and pay them less by gender.

In fact I heard an intelligent argument that stated the point; if women were cheaper to employ than men then all businesses would be all-women to save money.

What business in their right mind would pay some one more to do a job that could be done for less?

So when it comes to working men do not have it easier than women, it could be argued that women have it much easier than men.

Life Expectancy

A man can expect to live some 7% less time on this earth than his female counterpart.

Some of this actually has to do with the physical aspects of male oriented occupation.

Some has to do with the fact larger people live shorter lives.

Some has to do with the fact that men are twice as likely to be murdered as females, a clear case of men having it tough.

So when it comes to living longer men draw the short straw most of the time.

Health Funding

1 in 3 men get cancer, 1 in 4 women do.

Now I’ll be the first to admit, men wait a lot longer to visit a doctor than their female contemporaries. Women get in early and beat a lot of diseases.

However….

75% of all medical research funding goes to women’s health research.

So when it comes to caring about men’s health, the funding would suggest society doesn’t care as much.

This is the sort of thing that plays on my mind when I hear the relentless attacks on how easy males have it in the world and how society panders to men’s every want. Yet it would seems that society couldn’t care less about males dying from diseases.

Food for thought thus far anyway.

Parenting

Women are wonderful parents and men are deadbeats.

Well, this is the sort of statement that the media adds propensity to and some feminists do very little to discourage.

The facts though would show that it’s a lie and a vicious myth that seeks only to pass on shame and work further to distance fathers in their ability to be better parents.

We’ve already explored why the law ostracizes men from parenthood and how men actually by default aren’t allowed to spend as much time with their kids in break-ups and divorces

Unfortunately as the men’s role tends to be heavily defined as the money earner they also get far less time to build a relationship at home with their children and form such a strong bond.

When they get separated it is not unusual for men to become despondent, even suicidal and often detached.

Studies show that more and more women who work whilst their partners raise the children are experiencing the same problem. They can not form as solid a relationship with their children.

So it seems in one income families, the partner who works not only misses out on many formulative firsts in a child’s life, but also experiences less of an attachment due to the fact they simply don’t have the opportunity to spend as much quality time with the children as the stay-at-home partner.

In this day and age where men are still predominantly the bread winners in families, men are the ones missing out.

So when it comes to life’s most important gift – Children, men do not have it easier.

Women on the other hand are by default
allowed the time to stay at home and be a parent and form a bond and enjoy the time with their children that men very rarely get.

Women constantly feel aggrieved that society has in place customs and expectations that women must stay at home, but it affects males equally as they are expected to go out and work, earn money and spend a lifetime missing out on seeing their children’s firsts.

Blame

Men are responsible for all the evil, wars, crime and ill doings in history.

I bet you grew up with the media, teachers and many others heavily leaning this opinion on you.

The fact is whilst atrocities happened through out history, many perpetuated by man, there to stop them was always and has always been men of bravery and goodness.

Now I said I would try not to be misogynistic and in fairness I don’t think what I’m about to say is, but fair warning has been given.

Children are 2 times more likely to die at the hands of their mother than their father.
So women are capable of great evils, and their is no greater evil than infanticide.

I am not for a second trying to make women look bad, only to highlight that men really aren’t responsible for all of society’s ills.

Both genders are capable of terrible things, but most people don’t commit horrendous crimes, so there’s no point judging them by gender.

…But men still continue to be judged unfairly as evil, violent and not to mention potential pedophiles.

The teaching fraternity has ostracized males effectively ending male teaching equality.

Nowadays men fear becoming teachers for the possibility an angry parent, a bad student or a jealous colleague need only ACCUSE them to sentence them to a lifetime of hell.

This has resulted in schools were male teachers a scarce and the male point-of-view and the things in male’s best interests are often second place as some female teachers place their own feminine emphasis on both boys and girls.

The minds of young boys are being sculpted into accepting that the best interests of females are the best interests of everyone.

Generally mutually beneficial things are great, but any teaching that believes one gender should have any advantage over another is an unfair mode of molding children’s minds.

Unfortunately until society’s attitude changes, we will lack the input (much needed, valuable balancing input) of men in the important role of teachers.

Hopefully this will change sooner than later, but until the myth that men are evil is attacked voraciously by the media only to become synonymous with backward thinking, we will continue to see the numbers of men in teaching roles dwindle.

Stop blaming men, everyone is responsible only for the things they do.

Respect

The respect a man deserves for being a good father, husband and member of society is being attacked by the unintelligent views of those who only seek to gain for themselves at the expense of others.

Equality isn’t a zero sums game….Sometimes

Men and women can be equal and have equal rights and opportunities without the constant need for angry stereotypes about men and their short comings from angry feminists who themselves argue about equality, whilst simultaneously enjoying sexist benefits and leeway that men do not.

The television does little to show men in all their glory, instead your typical show features emasculated men at the mercy of their wives. Men like Ray Ramone in shows like Everybody Loves Raymond deal with having no say in household matters and get no respect, not to mention act like bumbling idiots.

This is the stereotype that young men are lead to believe they can look forward to enjoying in the future.

To some it may seem fickle, but whilst these character are hilarious and most often enjoyable, men laugh it off even though they dread the thought of that being them.

Respect is important to men. It makes them feel like their contribution to society is of value. It seems we have no problem in blaming man for all the problems of the world but seem to revolt at the thought of celebrating his contributions to society, of which there are many.

Everywhere I go I see dads playing in the park with their kids, teaching them skills and putting value into their lives, but it seems the media only wants you to know about the deadbeats of which statistically there are very few and sometimes including in absent parent statistics are men who can’t get custody of their children due to archaic divorce laws that heavily favor female custody.

Fathers love their children and when allowed the time to be in their lives make fantastic parents.

If you want an excellent example of how society respects dads, just look no further than the mothers day/fathers day phenomena where mothers get lavished upon with flowers, chocolates and dad gets a pair of socks.

…And doesn’t complain!!!

Go to your nearest birthday card store and pick up a card for a husband. Each comical one is about how lucky the dimwit is to have such a wonderful wife, then pick up a wive’s one and it’ll say the same thing.

So much for the theory that society undervalues mother’s contributions, maybe dad get the same end of the stick too.

Favoritism

Very few people no matter how one sided their views are will argue that women don’t receive huge benefits on the basis of their gender.

Put and man outside a broken down car and put a women outside one and see who gets helped.

One myth I hear a lot is how women get ripped of by mechanics. Let me tell you a little secret from the inside…

…Mechanics rip off everybody, it just so seems that men are more knowledgeable about all things mechanic and can display knowledge that can’t be taken advantage of, but there are many (many) men that have not a clue about the inner machinations of motor vehicles and are subsequently charged for four new tires when needing but a $5 spark plug.

Women first!

I’m sure you’ve heard that one, except when it comes to running into the fire to save lives, or to put their life on the line, Of course there are many women who do, but statistically any job where bravery and lives go on the line are heavily (extremely so) dominated by male numbers.

Men still foot the bill, we still risk our lives, we still buy more gifts for our significant others and we still bear the brunt of blame for all the worlds problems.

Look at valentines day, it’s a day for giving a loved one gifts that show you care and yet men outspend women 4 to 1 . I’d say that’s some heavy favoritism at work.

Have you seen the price of a dozen roses?

Did you know that women can still access superannuities/pensions 5 years earlier than men in many countries? This is a clear case of sexism and favoritism.

Yet, men as a group never seem to complain about (and yes I’m going to because it stinks – it really stinks).

But I’d like to explore this some more, you see over the course of a relationship, men seriously miss out on gifts. Just look at wedding rings, the average woman’s ring is 20 times the price of a mans.

Favoritism!

The average female spends 18% of the household income on herself, the average male spends 3%.

Is it any wonder there are 12 times as many female oriented stores than there is male oriented?

Go to any mall, there is no argument to be had here.

But the biggest favoritism I’d like to speak about is the media one.

Guess what, women are the world’s major consumers, so all commercial media heavily panders to their desires.

This means men are demeaned for humor and women are not to be argued with. In fact very few networks are brave enough to cast female villains or female criminals in dramas, simply because women don’t want to see themselves as the bad guy (girl), it’s just bad for business.

This has lead to a warped media reality where the reports are of male oriented crime, yet the statistic continue to stay the same, men are only slightly more likely to commit crimes than females.

It’s just that they are 7 times more likely to be convicted. See how perverse this makes reality?

The media heavily favors females by attacking males and omitting the facts. Pay attention though, because infanticide is on the rise and females are the ones committing most of it.

Adverts try hard to appease female sensibilities by instilling the feeling that they work far too hard and should be rewarded. This seems to be all the justification they need to go on a spending spree.

The problem with this is adverts can be sexist and put down males in order to appeal to females. But we don’t complain, we just laugh it off and get on with life.

Men really aren’t that bad you know.

Why should a women retire earlier than a man?

It’s not right and it shouldn’t happen and I’m yet to hear a valid argument why this sexist practice continues.

Until men start spending more of their income on themselves, we will continue to see the status quo, were you can attack a man, but females are taboo.

Okay, so it’s marginal and seems innocuous, but if it gets any worse it WILL have long term consequences as life imitates art, as it always has.

In Conclusion

Don’t fall under the illusion that the world is but man’s playground that does nothing but cater to his every whim.

In general men work hard, are good fathers, loving husbands and productive members of society.

Unfortunately they, by and large are not portrayed that way.

The world caters to where the money is and though again, statistically men may have more, women spend far more and it’s good business to give them what they want and never, never tell them what they don’t want to hear.

That’s the truth, and any media advertising firm will tell you that males are fair game and women are nearly taboo.

Before you start thinking men have it all “made”, just realize there are benefits on the side of both genders.

Men need not to paint themselves as victims as many of the extreme feminists have done. They just need to be aware of the fact that we can stand up and say sexism occurs as often against if not more than it does against females who have ministers, lecturers and teachers devoted to their cause.

Why Men Don’t Have It Easy

Controlling Your Anger

Male Anger Get’s Viewed Under The Microscope Of Society

The focus behind learning how to Control Your Anger is to empower you with the knowledge of why anger occurs and equip you with the correct solutions to deal with this powerful emotion.

As a man, there’s never been a more important time to learn self-control and patience. Everything men do is under the microscope because there are many ideologues who hate you just for being a man and want to find every single thing men do that is bad an report it at large. There is no respite.

It’s no secret that I’m critical of feminism and have written at length about the ways in which feminists and their lap dogs seek to vilify and mock men at every opportunity.

This only gives us more reason to stand tall and lead by example. Showing the world what strong, men are capable of.

You Anger Has Nothing To Do With Testosterone

There’s a lot of garbage going around about how high testosterone men are aggressive but this is nonsense. Some of the strongest, most in control-of-their-temper human beings are males with very high testosterone levels.

The fact is, a man who has a bad temper is stronger and far more capable of damage than a female (to a degree). For this reason, it’s easy to see how it comes to attention.

Understanding your anger is a key focal point in enabling one to learn how to manage their anger.

Some people of course seem to have larger quantities than others, so by using the examples of more passive people and taking control of this weakness, we can learn to exercise responsibility by retraining our focus.

There is no doubt – Anger is dangerous and without a measure of control, some people are a safety concern to themselves and others.

It’s Different For Every Man

If you feel that your anger is a risk factor, or you just want a more passive approach to living, controlling your anger can help guide you to a safer path. If ever there was a time where the whole “personal development” idea was relevant it would be in self help anger control.

Some men have lifestyles that are high conflict and learn conflict resolution as part of the course. Some males simply lack social aptitude and become reticent men whom never seek to be front and center.

There in no one size fits all approach to controlling your temper.

Understanding Anger Laterally

From a lateral viewpoint, the answer is often an eye opener for many.

What if you were told your anger had nothing to do with the world around you, your environment or the actions of others?

Well, that is exactly how it is. Your anger is purely an inability (or disability) to react to your environment with a socially acceptable response system. The problem is entirely yours – It is all you and therefor is the responsibility of yourself to control and harness entirely without blame for others or the world around you.

Fortunately you can take solace in the fact that there are many that suffer from the anger affliction and yet control it appropriately. There is also a number of things you can learn from the the actions of those with a more passive approach to living – We can all learn a lot from those fortunate others.

A Poor Temper & Expectations

An ill tempered person reacts with anger often towards a situation because of fear and a high expectation of the probability of events. Either they react with anger due to a constant disappointment, because their expectations are never met , or they react to the fear of an action or event with anger as a protection mechanism.

A person with low expectations of probabilities often have an easier time reacting to the world around them without exhibiting such bad tempered reactions because they are not set up for constant disappointment.

Then there is the issue of self control – No matter how you assess it, a lack of self control is an innate lack of discipline and you must take responsibility for this before you can move forward.

Self Control

Some people seem to have self control in bucket loads, while others appear to have a complete lack of it. Fortunately there is no secret (which is actually fantastic), as the key to exercising control over your anger is all in your discipline and the level at which you respect the value of self control.

When you see personal control as a extremely valuable commodity it opens your eyes to a new paradigm of possibility. Those who actively seek to enhance this very personal aspect of their lives can build an internal strength that makes the weakness of anger seem exposed.

I believe men have the potential for great self control and that I care about men in society. But I think each man needs to step up and take responsibility for his actions before seeking to blame others for his responses.

Your intention to learn ways of controlling your anger is a vital first step. With the intent and the knowledge comes a base, but the discipline is by far the hardest and not surprisingly the most important factor in controlling your anger in the long term.

Discipline

This is where I think men can really shine. I believe males are taught discipline more than females. From very early years men are told they must accept society norms that allow women to treat them in a way in which would never be allowed should it ever be reciprocated.

She can hit you, slap you, and call you names and it’s all good. But you dare not retaliate for fear of a real retribution that she would simply not face.

This can actually build strength in men and while it may seem unfair, in many ways it does you no harm in removing weakness.

Weakness and excessive anger go hand in hand. At some point one must be aware of this weakness and to a point be ashamed of this personal trait. Shame is a heavy word but in this case it is a self evaluating tool that can actually do some good.

By refusing to hold bad temper as an acceptable trait an ill tempered person can then proceed to take the appropriate measures to ensure they develop a more disciplined approach to the world.

At the core of discipline is usually a desire and if your desire to control your temper is strong then you can build up a habit of making more passive responses to disappointing circumstances, but if your desire is weak and you don’t accept the responsibility as yours alone then change will be next to impossible and your discipline will be found waning.

Desire – Responsibility – Necessity

By taking ownership of your faults and understanding the absolute necessity to change, you can begin to develop a reactionary process that you can be proud of.

Many bad tempered, aggressive people desire to be like the passive people who seem to have such a calm and collected response mechanism, by holding these passive people as role models you can seek to emulate their behavior and train yourself to take a more passive course of reaction.

Anger management control starts with the desire to make a change.

In Conclusion

Once you have decided learn how to control your anger, you can now begin the next step in the journey to self control.

Living without anger is empowering. Anger can destroy the lives and happiness of many people around you including your own. A bad temper can socially ostracize you from friends and families, not to mention prevent new relationships from developing.

Increase you own personal happiness by taking control – We wish you success.

What About Teh Menz?

The Feminist Mockery Of Men’s Real Issues

What About These Men’s Issues?

A Little Bit On Feminism

Equality the concept is both admirable and important in its attainment of opportunity for everyone. Unfortunately, people and their cultures are not equal and do not believe the same things, so equality to some people may have a very different meaning to others.

A socialist, a capitalist and a non-statist scuba diver may have quite differing opinions on what equal opportunity is and what should or shouldn’t be done to achieve a desired result.

Why is this relevant to feminism?

Feminism itself is not one specific meaning. Many times you will hear the feminists quote “feminism is not a monolith”, as a way to divert the things people take them to task over as being not necessarily their opinion.

The one single thing they do try to extol, is that feminism means equality for all.
This is their monolith, it is the definition they all stand by.

In other words, not all feminists agree.

Unfortunately, there exists too much action by feminists, too many sexist remarks, too many one sided articles and far too many unscientific studies for them to claim that feminism is about equality.

There are a myriad, an absolute mountain of ways in which men are not equal to women. There are so many areas in which it is harder to be a man that listing them here would most likely make for a less than readable experience, and I want you to keep reading.

Equality Means Equal – Does That Need Repeating?

There are also ways in which women are not equal to men, there are ways in which women suffer that are worth fighting for.

Feminism gives logic the big ol’ middle finger when it says it is about equality and yet it addresses women’s issues and minimalizes the men’s issues.

In many cases it purposefully seeks to dismiss men’s issues and debunk them. That’s right, there are feminists that spend their time not fighting for equality, but trying to make the very real problems of men seem trivial. That’s not only hateful, it’s also kinda sad.

It’s sad that someone has so much anger, that they would look at real problems faced by men and actually decide they want to find out how to cover them up, debate them and draw attention away from them.

What About Teh Menz?

Derision instead of factual debate is puerile at the best of times, at the worst it is an immature exposure of one’s ability to make a coherent point.

Feminism claims to be about equality, it claims to not hate men and yet appears to attack anything remotely related to men, males, and testosterone, as if this stereotype was unfounded. Many ex-feminists will tell you that the ranks of feminism are absolutely littered with hate for men, often to the point that when some women question the ideals of feminism’s leaders; when they ask about or state the validity of men’s claims to have real problems, they are shut down, harassed and often abused.

One feminist writer, who posed several questions, was targeting with a smear campaign and received death threats.

So much for logical debate?

Where is the equality of ideas?

Men’s Problems – What Problems?

Feminism’s long reach shows utter disdain for men’s rights by ignoring perfectly vaild, researched and proven areas of male suffering.

When feminists talk about an area in which they perceive women to have issues in the blogosphere, sometimes there are men who make statements that consist no more than that men sometimes have those same problems. That they would like these issues addressed.

An all too common tactic among feminism, is to not hold out the hand of friendship and work together, nope, the usual response is that he is wrong and that men do not have problems and that talking about men’s issues, which many of course be human issues; has no place in a conversation about women’s problems.

Facts or no facts.

What About Teh Menz Problemz?

What could have been a unified force becomes a “you don’t have a real problem – we do, go away, you’re not welcome here” charge.

They call male commentators out with a derision known as “what about teh menz”. Apart from the implication the men can not spell, it is an ad hominem attack design to stifle any reality and replace it with insult, which to those who are male haters, is fine and it diverts the focus away from the possible perception that a man may have a problem.

In fact go to any feminist blog right now and find a subject in which men share problems with women like suicide and offer your most polite, most sincere assertion that as a man you know how suicide rates are high and that a common solution could be worked for and you will be met with very little enthusiasm and most likely be met with anger and accused of trying to hijack the conversation. No matter how sincere you are.

Men Are Welcome In Feminism…

Well, Almost – Just Don’t Mention Men’s Problems

It seems male feminists are welcomed it is only if they denounce men’s problems and accept the doctrine that women are victims and men have no problems.

Frequently in blogs that are not feminist per se, men will comment that the problems women are complaining of are apparent in men’s lives also and that it is a shared problem, yet they are still frequently shut down by feminist commentators who charge them with derailing the one sided debate.
Unfortunately, what often happens is these very man haters are the ones who BRING men into the debate.

It happens frequently when they see a news story on a woman who committed a crime and they talk about how this crime is the fault of a male society, or how the woman must have had a reason and that reason was a bad man.

You start to get a feeling for the hypocrisy when you see men entering the discussion, but being told it’s not about men’s issues and the subject matter should not be deviated from, however when the subject matter is deviated from it is fine if that deviation is about blaming men and complaining about men. It’s funny, because no such charge of deviation is leveled at anyone.

We want to talk about you not with you.

Ignoring Men’s Issues And Chasing Fallacies

Feminism does not recognize men’s issues almost ever. Sometimes they have no choice. because the evidence is so hugely overwhelming, that if they even tried to argue, then they would seem facile and dishonest.

Feminists will tell you that men have all the power, even though power has many, many incarnations, but such is the extremely narrow, totally entrenched view of feminism – They only understand and endorse two forms of power – The members of government and the boards of corporations.

The unbelievably ignorant dismissal of all over power forms is wretched and divisive.

Governments have no power without voters. There is no male majority with out consent and approval via the democratic process (in democratic countries of course).

The majority of voters are female and as male mortality rates at birth stay current and men consistently are outlived by women, the female majority of voters could be higher than 65% within 25 years.

There are more male politicians, because less females run for office and more females vote for male representatives.

It’s democratic, it’s fair and it is due to choice.

Menz Haz All Da Powa

Feminists will tell you we live in a culture that dismisses the abilities of females to be politicians and heads of state, yet at the time of writing this article, Germany Has A Female Chancellor,Australia has a Female Feminist Prime Minister, USA almost had a female president in Hillary Clinton, many other democracies have elected female heads of state.

On the subject of corporations, a company can not exist with out customers. Women control 80% of expenditure in the United States.

So if feminism has so much inclination towards corporate power, shouldn’t it put some stock into the idea that these corporations are controlled by the expenditure of women?
Is it not ignorant to ignore?

Just to recap:

Females make up the majority of voters and have the power to control which government gets elected.

Females make up 80% of expenditure and have the complete power to control what a company can profit from.

It seems like there are two sides to the coin here and feminists are only interested in looking at one.

Countering Feminist Fallacies

There is a certain irony when confronting feminists with research and broader parameters than they are used to within their myopic confinement of thought.

When posited the idea that females make up the majority of voters, feminists will quickly move to counter the argument with the idea that females don’t vote in blocks with a hive mindset.

This is one of the most sensible things they charge, because for all apparent knowledge we have, they don’t. It’s completely true.

But by this very reason, this very admission, we can also make a separate deduction which counters another of their arguments.

If male’s make up a majority of board room positions, would it not stand to reason that they also do not think in block with a hive mindset and do not make gender specific decisions?

For this reason is it not sexist to assume there is any gendered power in boardrooms and that they make decisions on the basis of money and profitability?

If this is the case, then why do we need to enforce rules to place women in board positions?

By that logic, should we not force men to have an extra percentage of voting in elections, because they are the minority?

Should we not be spending as much time and money addressing workplace DEATHS that men make up 94% of?

Why Being A Man Is Not All About Having Unlimited Power And Advantages

It’s actually surprisingly easy to counter feminist’s claims that men have far more power and opportunity than women. All we have to do is look at the areas of living that are most important and we start to get a picture of how tough men really do have it and how feminism’s attempts to silence debates about men’s issues will simply not last for much longer as the obvious becomes more… Obvious!

Few people would argue that the most important areas of live are health, money and family.

Men’s health:

Quite simply men have it worse on all fronts.

Men die earlier,
Men suffer from more diseases,
Men occupy 94% of workplace deaths
Men make up 70% of murder victims
Men make up 80% of assault victims

So What About Teh Menz? Who cares eh?

But even in the face of this, men consume only 30% of health service funding, 21% of health research and 38% of gender specific health care preventative advertising.
Absolutely no advantage there.

All That Money Men Have:

In the USA, men make up only 20% of expenditure. Feminists do frequently charge that men have more money because of a completely debunked wage gap, yet when it comes to spending it, research shows time and time again that women spend almost all of it.

Walk into any mall and you will see proof, but it you want absolutely irrefutable evidence search for advertising media industry records and you will see whom they market to and why.

An hour in the mall, or an hour watching TV will leave you in no doubt as to WHO spends the money and who controls the cash.

Being that men lose a far larger share of asset ownership in divorce and the divorce rate sits at over 35%, women end up with huge asset retention in divorce.

Feminism frequently levels accusations of this stereotype rich white guy but seem to be silent to the point of deafening on the little matter of his equally wealthy and asset entitled wife. They forget to mention that couples share assets and these women frequently leave their husbands but keep more than their fair share.

Men also die earlier leaving women to inherit their partner’s share.

As it stands women in the USA own 79% of all assets and growing.

So being that women own more wealth and spend more, men actually are surprisingly not all driving Ferraris and sipping Remy Martin XO.

Men And Family:

This is sad, because there exist so many good men who live to see more of their children, but are held back by an antiquated legal system and an inherently non legal bias against men.

In contested custody cases men only win 13% of custody, while women receive custody 80% of the time (the other 7% can be relatives who contest against both parents or one).

Men also work longer hours and get far less time with children than they frequently want. Sometimes this is by choice, but also it is frequently completely out of their hands.

There is an inherent bias in the legal system that sees men lose the right to see their children and get punished for being the bread winner, for working long hours in jobs they hate only to lose the right to see their children.

Men are expected by society and more importantly frequently by their spouse to go to work almost every time a child is born. There are few men that are given the choice to stay home by their partners even if they want that choice.

Few people would argue that spending time with children is one of the greatest, most rewarding gifts a person can have in life and whilst it might not be every body’s cup of tea, most people will give you no greater value than family as the supreme value.

Men who want family time constantly have a life of missing out.

Men’s Issues – In Summary

So men die younger, get more diseases, are murdered more frequently, are sufferers of the most serious injuries, suffer from almost all workplace deaths, have less assets and money because of the divorce rate and female longevity, have less time to spend with loved ones due to spousal and societal expectations and are frequently referred to as the privileged gender when women live longer, get less diseases, are murdered less often, suffer less serious injuries, make up very few work place deaths, have more assets due to divorce rates and longevity, spend more money – Especially on luxury purchases, have more time to spend with family and anyone has the dearth to call men privileged?

The next time someone dismisses men’s issues with ignorant statements like “what about the menz” as a way to arrogantly stifle debate, maybe you might think twice about their motives and what hate lies behind people who would willingly ignore such monumental issues.

Is Male Reticence A Real Problem?

Is Male Reticence A Really that much of a Problem?

Men are considered more phlegmatic than women as they don’t appear to show as much emotion, but is this a true claim or is it the product of a differing manifestation?

Societal pressures on women have been explored and discussed at large for the last fifty years. We know that mid-century women have fewer options, with the likelihood of treating marriage as a stepping stone to society’s backdoor as they were often of the impression they could themselves not acquire a position through their own esteem.

Let’s get real for a second

Lacking the vote, the right to own property, and the ability to go into all occupational fields created pressures for women.

The truth is, men faced many issues in the same eras as the social conditioning of society’s needs of the past gave way to the more pragmatic necessities. Men were expected to work and work hard.

They were expected to be protectors and providers, laconic and stern, plus they were simply not allowed by society’s conventions to be themselves and necessarily have the emotional range that women were.

Pressure for men mounted

These pressures on men meant that being a full-time parent was never an option unless thrust upon them by being widowed, or by other rare circumstances. These relationships they missed out on, may well have had a massive social cost to them.

There is little doubt one’s relationship with family including children is one of the most important factors in the human experience.

Not being allowed to have a significant presence in this hugely rewarding interconnection would have in turn only added to the stern nature of male expectation and livelihood.

Men soldiered on because they had to

There may have been a utilitarian upside to this set of circumstances. As men were more detached from their emotions from mass training, they were set to go to work on social problems of infrastructure, medical advancement, and defense.

One could form a very compelling argument that perhaps we enjoy the fruits of the labors of men who lost out on huge social values.

If they didn’t have this communal loss, we would quite probably be technologically behind where we are today.

Men love their families no matter what man-haters say

Men of this century are finding solace in the family and enjoying far more hands-on family time than their fathers were accorded and thusly, the mental health of testosterone-fueled men today is improving at a time when it needs to more than ever.

As women’s roles have changed and moved towards a path of more equality, males have not shaken the gender rigid roles as quickly, simply because male roles receive exponentially less discussion.

Benefits to all

We may all enjoy the benefits of the utilitarian male of the past, but we should never hold the modern male to the roles once deemed so vital and unshakeable.

May men’s value be tied much closer to their interfamily skills and the ability to raise good young citizens by being the role models the youth of tomorrow need.

A Masculine Criticism Of Feminism

Or, plainly – Why Feminism Sucks

What Is Feminism? – Equality For All or Some?

There are many feminists that would have you believe feminism is about achieving equality.

That it is the seeking out of unequal injustice and putting it right and making sure men and women in the future as well as the present can live in equal status with an equal voice.

However, there are many skeptics of which club I must assert that I belong to. If feminism really is about equality, then why don’t they fight for the areas in which females have advantages and in which males are in a huge disadvantage?

Why do they only ever seem to hold men accountable for wrong doings when there are areas of crime and poor social behavior that women dominate and why don’t they rely on studies done by neutral parties instead of quoting their own, highly dubious, cherry picked, self surveyed, self serving statistics?

I think I know why.

Because feminism in western society has become like all powerful bohemoths – Pointless, corrupt, envious and willing to do anything to keep and obtain more power.

Feminism seeks out more than equality, the seek out favorable outcomes for their gender in a free market that they have no business in abusing with socialist policy.

Now please don’t take offense. Saying Feminism is evil isn’t the same as saying women are evil. There is a monumental difference. But Many men rightfully feel that if feminists were to replace the word man or men with the words “Jew” or “Black” it would be hate speech, but they think it is fine to use such anti male language.

Anything testosterone related is deemed evil. Or at least “problematic”.

Feminist websites never report on female perpetrated crime, but frequently cite male crimes.

Frequently being the operative word. They blog post after post, but don’t realize (or perhaps do), that they are spreading hate.

Feminism Sucks Men’s Self Worth

Feminism seeks to paint men as evil and bad by continuously playing with self serving statistics, whilst simultaneously ommiting the heavy and omnipresent existence of female crime and wrong doing.

If you think I’m being unfair, then look at any feminist blog anywhere and they consistently bring up news reports and articles relating to men’s crime. They do it to prove a point – That men are more violent, but they do it in a manner to assert that this must mean all men are violent which they are not.

It has gotten to the stage where men are fair game for insults and blame, not to mention prejudice. The worst thing is that it is hitting young boys hard and could have a disastrous effect on already vulnerable male youths.

Feminism’s self serving, man hating (in many instances) policies need to be countered with common sense, rational thinking and equality needs to be sought by man and women side by side.

But, feminists don’t want to join forces. That would mean men would have a voice and by the apparent lack of interest by women in the real issues that men face today, it would seem like lip service by anyone saying otherwise.

Everything is the fault of the patriarchy.

That’s the feminist line and the patriarchy is male so men are to blame for everything.

Feminism Sucks The Honesty Out Of The Truth

Have you heard the latest domestic violence statistics?

Chances are you’d have to be living under a rock to not know that rape and domestic violence are at an all time high and men are the culprits.

I won’t deny men commit more rapes, in fact they commit the vast majority.
What I can’t stand for however is the propensity to paint violence and sexual abuse as an all male problem, whilst we point fingers at men and turn a blind eye to the honest, truth.

You see men are just as likely to be assaulted by their partners, but this is a fact or a statistic
that you’ll never hear in the mainstream media.

Is it because we don’t care?
No – Yes – Maybe

Is it because feminism is very pervasive and persuasive?
Yes – Definitely.

But the biggest problem with feminism is not that it fights for equality, but that in it’s most current form, it fights for the rights of women, not equality.

So don’t tell me you are fighting for the equality of my son and daughter, when you are not.

Tell the truth – My daughter and my wife, my sister and my mother, but don’t ever tell me you are fighting for the equality of my brother, my son, my father or me.

Because when feminists talk about domestic violence, they only talk about female victims, not the ever-growing number of men who are assaulted by their female partners. This is a problem, simply because funding for the prevention of domestic violence is directed heavily at the male perpetrator – female victim advertisements that you can’t go anywhere without seeing.

Fine! I have no problem with stopping the scumbag guys out there that assault their significant others. But if men are being assaulted just as often, don’t you think it might be fair to address the issue as a non-gender specific one?

So where is the feminist outcry?
A.W.O.L.

If they were for equality then they’d be out there telling the sisters to treat men with respect and to stop violence by being a role model.

That’s what us men are been told, be a role model, tell you friends that no means no and show respect for women.

Where are the campaigns telling women that it’s not okay to slap a man in the face if he offends you in general conversation, or it’s not okay to hit a guy with a baseball bat if he breaks up with you, and it’s never okay to kick a guy in the groin.

I’m still waiting?

Men are bad, bad, bad – Women crime – What Crime?

Airline companies such as Air New Zealand and British Airways have in the past implemented policies that mean no man can sit next to a child that is not in his guardianship.

In other words they have gender profiled men.

What bothers me is that women murder more children than men, so if we are stereotyping or profiling genders, then shouldn’t we ban women from being near kids on the basis that they are more likely to kill them?

Of course not! – It’s a ridiculous idea, but they are doing it to men and the equality fighting feminists are nowhere to be seen.

Again, if it doesn’t effect a female, it doesn’t concern them. That’s not seeking equality, that seeking gender based advantage.

Did you know that in that same country, they brought in a new law that says if the police get involved in a domestic disturbance issue, then they must detain the man.

This is at the whim of the word of the female involved.

Does that sound fair, or equal or non sexist to you?

What it means is that any nasty female can get her man taken away from his family, even if he has done nothing, because her word as a female is more important than his.

Feminists have no qualms in defending such actions either.

Here’s a quote from a feminist in defense of such unequal laws :

” I’m not so concerned – I think that men’s right to be at home needs to be balanced with women’s right to safety in their homes”.

So because a women is marginally more likely to be assaulted by her husband than he is by her, then it is okay to use statistical percentages to enact policies that deny some one of their human rights, and deny them due process or equality of representation under the law.

All because 2% of the men in New Zealand assault their wives and even though 1.6% of men are assaulted by their wives.

But what about they fact that a child is more likely to be murdered by their mother. Shouldn’t this form a statistical basis for the women to be removed?

The truth is a man has a right to be in his home and both men and women have a right to be safe.

The truth is if you said women are more likely to deprive their child of food, or leave them in the car whilst they play slot machines, you be right, but you’d be accused of being sexist and some how feminism would find a way to blame it on the patriarchy.

No wonder many men and women are tired of the feminist viewpoint.

It seems that statistic only matter when they support a pro female agenda.

Buy A Pink Ribbon

I love it that we as a society have really gotten behind the pink ribbon concept, and for once I’ll leave my skeptism of sheep following lynch mob mentalities and congratulate the public on getting behind any charitable endeavor.

But if you want true equality then it’s worth noting that:

In gender neutral diseases men die from far more in almost every category.

Prostate cancer kills almost as many men as breast cancer does women.

Men live on average 5 years less than women.

So where are the equalists looking to level the playing fields.

Men are negatively affecting in almost all areas of health and yet male health care funding falls well short of that for female health care funding and research.

How equal is that?

What is being done about it by feminists?

Nothing!

They are for the benefit of females and the silence of males on issues that are male related.

Feminism Sucks Teh Menz Point Of View

You’ll hear frequently about the feminists using the phrase “what about teh menz?”. It’s their way of saying that when men comment on an issue, then they have no right to.

Not only that but they use such childish language to imply that the men’s point of view is whining and pointless.

This way it doesn’t matter what a man says or feels, it is denounced and ridiculed before it leaves his lips.

This is feminism in action.

When they write about their one sided, skewed views on domestic assault, they often have men calling them on their lies. Many of the men have some pretty fair statistics and logical arguments, but the feminists will simply say it’s yet another “what about the menz?” argument.

Feminists can complain and complain about their issues, but when a MRA rebukes their spurious claims, they fight back with “what about the menz?”. It’s name calling for adults.

It’s like being on the playground all over again.

….and these are the people that want to enforce political policies.

Only The Good Jobs Please

Have you heard about innequality in the workplace?

How about sexual harrasment?

Did you know that males account for 91% of workplace deaths?

Not much equality happening there and the feminists are not exactly doing their bit to usher more females into dangerous work roles. You see it would seem that it’s okay for men to have the dangerous, deadly occupations, but when males dominate CEO statistics (a very, very rare, small miniority group of workers), then it’s not equal and needs to be rectified.

So once again, they want the best jobs, but they don’t want equality in the areas that are not the best. The funny, or sad thing about society is that there are bad jobs and good jobs, but the feminist don’t want to split the bad and the good.

The want to eat the cake, but they don’t want to do the dishes.

What about the right to vote?

In the USA a man has to register for the draft to be eligible to vote, but women do not have to.

You’ll hear about rape stats and assault this and that from feminists, but where are they standing up with one voice demanding to have the same voting rights as men on this one?

Nowhere to be seen, or perhaps justs proportionately quite maybe?

You’ll even hear the feminist argument that men invented the draft.

It’s true, they did, but consider that women are the 52% majority voters in the USA, one could also argue what are feminist mothers doing to repeal this archaic law?

Don’t feminists care about equality?

This situation sure as heck ain’t equal, so why aren’t women standing up for their sons the way they do when it comes to their daughters?

Feminists don’t want to say a word, But mention rape statistics being dubious and unscientific and hysteria will be personified.

They even try and counter males who say they were assaulted by saying these men might be the ones doing the assaulting and are covering it up by playing the victim.

How do you argue with that?

They even try and point to statistics that say many of the men who were assaulted were in an act of self defense by the women, but these are the results of feminist studies. Other studies do not correlate with such claims.

So why do feminist studies seem to have different findings to more neutral ones?

Go figure – It supports their theories and they receive more funding.

In Conclusion

Men and women are neither inherently evil nor innately good. We are products of our environments, physiological indentity and most importantly our own choices.

Men and women face many similar issues and some very individual ones, but to say that one side’s are far more important than the other is to be extremely sexist and not in the least bit seeking equality.

Equality comes with good and bad, that is to say with the good comes the bad.

When women stop having the leverage of their children over their partners, when male suicide rates come down to match the female ones when men live as long as females, when men get a look in for health research funding when police in domestic violence call-outs stop assuming men are the perpetrators when men don’t have to sign up to the draft when males become teachers again without the fear of finger-pointing and suspicion of ulterior motives.

Then we can say men matter!

Until these things and more are rectified men need to demand action.

Feminists do, but only action for females.

There are many problems men face, perhaps it could be argued that men should fight for those problems to be addressed, but considering men worked hard for feminism and that equality is supposed to be genderless it would almost be sexist for feminists to not help men’s issues or at least mention them.

Getting to the heart of why men need to be masculine

Don’t Be Silly, Now

Beat Low Testosterone

Front Up

Change Your AttitudeChange Your Life

Are You Willing To Work At It?

The Heart Of Being Masculine

Toxic Masculinity

Enjoying The Benefits Of Being A Good Man

Success In The Dating World As A REAL Man

Look most popular male celebrities are right now?

What Sort Of Man Do You Want To Be?

Let’s Talk About Betas

So, What Have We Learned?

So, what have we learned here?

What Are You Going To Do About It?

Listing your goals

Defining Feminism

The Lynch Mob

Hysteria & Misdirection

What Men Think

Rape Jokes Everywhere

Patriarchy

Patriarchy Nonsense

The Patriarchy Myth Busted.

Men Are Studs – Women Are Sluts

Is the Game Even?

Do Women Want Sex As Much As Men – What Hookers, Never Heard Of Them

Differing Outcomes = Differing Rules?

STDs & A Biological Fact Or Two

Size Matters And Doing The Business

In Summary

Is There A Sex Double Standard Between Men And Women By Testosterone Hacks

Fighting to keep testosterone alive before it’s outlawed

Feminists And Their Lies!

I Don’t Play Their Game

Men Don’t Have It Easy In Divorce

Men Don’t Have It Easy In Sex

Men Don’t Have It Easy With The Law

Employment

So, in conclusion;

Life Expectancy

Health Funding

Parenting

Blame

Respect

Favoritism

Favoritism!

In Conclusion

Why Men Don’t Have It Easy

Male Anger Get’s Viewed Under The Microscope Of Society

You Anger Has Nothing To Do With Testosterone

It’s Different For Every Man

A Poor Temper & Expectations

What About These Men’s Issues?

Why is this relevant to feminism?

Equality Means Equal – Does That Need Repeating?

What About Teh Menz?

What About Teh Menz Problemz?

Men Are Welcome In Feminism…

Well, Almost – Just Don’t Mention Men’s Problems

Ignoring Men’s Issues And Chasing Fallacies

Menz Haz All Da Powa

Just to recap:

Countering Feminist Fallacies

Why Being A Man Is Not All About Having Unlimited Power And Advantages

So What About Teh Menz? Who cares eh?

All That Money Men Have:

Men And Family:

Men’s Issues – In Summary

Men soldiered on because they had to

Men love their families no matter what man-haters say

Or, plainly – Why Feminism Sucks

I think I know why.

Feminism Sucks Men’s Self Worth

Feminism Sucks The Honesty Out Of The Truth

So where is the feminist outcry?A.W.O.L.

Men are bad, bad, bad – Women crime – What Crime?

Feminism Sucks Teh Menz Point Of View

Change Your Attitude
Change Your Life

So where is the feminist outcry?
A.W.O.L.